A girl shared how she turned down a guy in his class because he made her uncomfortable, apparently, he has a hobby of writing fan fiction about the girls in his class.
Here is the story
I turned down a guy who won’t take no for an answer and I have to see him in person again, how can I turn him down without bringing danger to myself?
I (f18) recently turned down a guy (m18) in my class by text because he made me uncomfortable. We had only talked for a total of maybe twenty minutes in person over the span of a few days.
He ended up blowing up on me and argued with me for three hours.
I could have and should have just stopped responding and blocked him immediately, but I struggle with making anyone unhappy and I just wanted the conversation to leave off on at least a neutral note.
This didn’t happen. I have to see him again on Monday and he scares me.
He has a list of girls he wrote fanfiction about and I made the mistake of not saying no to a date with him when I didn’t know about it (didn’t say yes either).
He told me I owe him at least one date and that things could be dangerous for me without him. I feel extremely uncomfortable around him, and missed school for a day just to not see him.
How do I turn him down in person without sending any mixed messages or making him mad at me so he doesn’t get physically aggressive?
Tell your parents, School counselor and teachers. This guy is a creep, dont let him get away with this, he might do it again