A netizen shared how she was approached by a few guys in school whom she rejected to focus on her studies, and she then lost some friends who cut contact with her after being rejected.
She then asked if her friends were getting married and didn’t invite her, does it mean that her existence doesn’t matter to them?
Here is the story:
“Like to hear some thoughts on my current situation. I am in my last semester and got a job offer which i will be putting my all into it!
During my time in school, I have been approached by a few guys with I have turned them down politely, reason is to focus on my studies, some are still friends, some lost contact on purpose but i do not blame them.
I too would cut contact if i confessed and got rejected!
The truth is that I did not have ample time nor do I know how to date. I just do not see the need to be with someone that doesn’t feel right, not in for the fling etc. I play basketball, so make-up ain’t my thing.
Recently, most of my peers are getting married. It is almost as though it is the wedding season. I am intending to slug it out at work until my Mr Right comes along – I am a tough nut to crack but we will see.
I have a question, do you girls, or guys still stay in contact after school?
I mean, if your peers are getting married but did not invite you, does that mean that your existence doesn’t matter to them?”
Editor’s note: You gotta figure out what your priorities are and move on from there.