I’ve just started to date this guy. He’s actually my secret crush and I’m so excited he’s started to ask me out.
I’ve been happy for the past few months and everything has been blissful until he knows about my ig account. He also doesn’t know I model occasionally .
Recently I mentioned I have a business account with a following of xx,xxx followers. It’s just a part time for extra income where I do ads for a small fee and didn’t see the need to mention it early in the relationship.
He got upset that I “kept a secret” and said what’s the point if I’m not making much money and that I should give it up and focus on my studies.
He does not use social media, his last post was over 5 years ago and he’s been using the same profile pic since he created his account.
So he doesn’t see the point of trying to make money out of it. I am upset by his lack of support and how he chided me.
I agree it’s not going to be my bread and butter but I’m making some money now. So what’s the issue? Is this a red flag?