A girl recently took to Facebook to state on how a girl should not be judged by the amount of s*x partner she has and a girl has the right to give herself a “treat” once in awhile before marriage.
Here is the full story.
I’m in need of advice on my decisions. I’m the most demure woman among my cliques not just at my company, but also at uni and school. I’m not saying that I lack sexual experience at all, but until today I’m 29 and only slept with 3 men, and all of them are my exes. As compared to the rest in my clique, I would say all of them have s*xual encounters with guys who weren’t their boyfriends or dating partners, such as random guys from dating apps, clubbing and workplace.
Despite that, most of them are now happily married, some even have kids and they seem to have a pretty harmony family. From what I know, many guys tend to despise girls who sleep around with random dudes, but none of my friends with polygamous relationships and flings have such issues. I’m honestly not sure whether they really full disclosed their s*xual encounters to their boyfriend or husband, but an important lesson that they taught me is that it doesn’t matter what you do now, it’s what you do later that matters.
They said if they’re young and not ready to settle down, and have s*xual craving or the urge to be drowned in love and affections, there is nothing wrong with having multiple s*x partners, fwbs, or even sugar daddies, as long as they don’t cheat and that’s it. All that matters is when they are seriously going to consider to settle down and start a family, then it is time for them to stop all these fun before they meet their potential man. All that matters is who the guys see them as of now, but not before, so regardless of the number of men that they slept with, as long as they don’t do that anymore when they are in a serious committed relationship, their boyfriend or future husband will always forgive them. Is that really true?
Like I feel that right now I just came out from a 3 year relationship, and I’m not ready to commit in a new relationship, but I feel like it’s a waste if I don’t “treat” myself well before I really get married and settle down. I enjoy sex a lot but I start to find it interesting to try it with guys that are not my partner. If let’s say I really meet new guys online to find potential fwbs, is it really that easy for me to come clean to my future potential partner? Is it that easy for them to forgive me? Thank you for your advice everybody.”