A man shared a story about how a girl he met claims that she is single and available but end up getting confronted by her husband.
The husband flaunts his wealth to the man and got scolded for no reason.
Here is the story:
I recently met a girl in a pub at Clark Quay through a mutual friend, she is quite cute and I decided to make a move after I caught her staring at me a few times.
So I went up to her and chat and had a couple of drinks with her, then I asked if she is available and she said she is. I was curious as she was really good-looking and only 27 years old. I am 30 years old this year and thought that there might be a chance to develop into something further.
Shortly after, we exchange our contact information and we started texting regularly. We met a couple of times and we eventually shared our first kiss at Fort Canning hill.
Yesterday, I met her at Boat Quay for dinner and drinks and a man approached us and started shouting.
She accused my date of cheating on him and said that she should not forget about their 3-year-old son who is at home.
I acted casually and quickly realised that she has a husband, So I said that I am just selling her insurance and I am working for AXA.
The husband happened to be an insurance agent and told me not to try getting his wife as a customer as he is a “big deal” in the industry and he is also a Top of Table MDRT or whatever insurance title.
Which means he is very rich. I don’t know much about insurance as I worked in the construction industry.
He then started to say that he is very rich and powerful telling me that he can destroy me in the insurance industry.
I then casually replied: “Hey, we are just having dinner and please control your behaviour in public”.
He then started saying he drives a 7 series BMW and he is the cream of the crop in the insurance industry and told me to stay away from his wife.
His wife also told him to stop over-reacting and told him off.
We eventually ended the date early and did not meet for a couple of weeks. Until she called me and apologize for lying about her marital status.
She then asked if it is possible to have a companion relationship with her and just enjoy physically without any status.
I was dumbfounded and said yes, as I am not losing anything. While I am still getting “some” and keeping my options open.
I really feel that in this era, things are started to get more open and many people you meet might not be truthful and just make use of each other.