It started out as a joke. My boyfriend and I had been talking about our relationship and he made a comment about how he was bigger than most guys.
That made me laugh and I jokingly said, “Maybe you can be my banana!” Little did I know that it would become a running joke between us and that I would soon find out just how big his “banana” really was.
It all started when we decided to take things to the next level one night. We had been dating for a few months and were both ready to take things further. We started with some heavy petting and then things started to get a little more serious. We were both inexperienced and I was a bit nervous but I figured it would be okay.
Unfortunately, I was wrong. When he finally entered me, I felt a sharp pain unlike anything I had ever experienced before. It was so intense that I had to stop him and it took me a few minutes to catch my breath. When I finally did, I realized that his “banana” was a bit too big for me.
At first, I thought that maybe I was just being a baby and that I would get used to it. But no matter how hard we tried, it was always too much for me. I was always in pain and I was starting to get sore throats from the effort. I knew I had to do something, so I finally decided to talk to him about it.
I told him that his “banana” was a bit too big for me and that it was causing me a lot of pain. He was very understanding and started to be extremely gentle. But it was not working and we had to break up.
At first, I was worried that I would never find someone who was the right size for me. But I eventually found a guy who was just right. We have now been together for several months and I couldn’t be happier.
It was a difficult conversation to have but it was worth it in the end. I know now that size really doesn’t matter. As long as you and your partner are both comfortable, that’s all that matters.