Some explaination of my hair first: I have been coloring my hair the same type of auburn red since 2005, the company discontinued my color in the last few years and ill be honest my hair is pretty grown out.
I work as an assistant in a clinic.
The bottom part of my hair is the auburn red, top is my natural dirty blonde color and in the middle is a lighter blonde because the red color i got after mine was discontinued apparently had lightener in it and somewhat bleached my hair… hence why ive been afraid to try other colors… so its kinda a mess, i know this. I walk into the patient room and the first thing this guy says is “Your hair is half blonde and half red” so I said, with a laugh, “Yea I’m behind on coloring thanks for pointing it out.”
He then proceeds to say I hope you don’t take offence to this, but I think women are more attractive with their natural hair color. I said that people have always said my natural hair color looks less natural on me than the red does so that’s funny you think that.
He said that my husband probably like my natural color better, and I said actually he prefers the red.
And he said that my husband probably just doesn’t want to tell me that he likes my natural color better. At this point it went from a light conversation to I felt he was getting too personal. I really just tried to end the topic and carry on with what I needed to do so I could leave the room.
But he kind of continued with the I don’t want you to be offended. I had kept my tone cheerful the whole time and assured him I wasn’t offended because I really just wanted him to stop. What makes anyone think they have the right to talk to someone this way? So rude… just wanted to vent.
Why local so many old people think that just because they are old they are right and like to kpkb in public?