The guy who earns less than 4k a month.
I don’t know you. But I’ve met men like you. I totally get why you made such sweeping statements about women. No one likes to be rejected. I can tell you one thing. Even men who make less than 4k a month can get women.
But would you reject the women who want you?
You probably won’t even give these kind of women a second look as you deem them as not good enough for you. It’s like you’re a 5/10, wanting an 8/10 and looking down at any woman who is 4 to 6.
Everyone wants the best for themselves but what do you have that the ‘best’ must accept you?
I’m guessing from your post, not only you do not have money, you also don’t have the looks, personality or intelligence to nab the type of women you’re after. So what does that leave you? Focus on what you can work on. Calling women gold diggers because you are rejected just shows you haven’t learnt much about women.
If a man have enough good points but don’t make enough money, some women will be willing to stay around and work together with you. Trust me, you wouldn’t want a woman who will be with you just because you can earn 20k a month. Just like all people who want to have a relationship, we want someone who is willing to be with us through thick and thin.
The only advantage you have is that men have almost no expiry date compared to women. You can be 40 and still date women from 20s to 40s while a woman of the same age have to settle for a smaller pool.
But above all, I still have faith that men like you would be able to find someone one day. She may not be your first choice, she may not be a perfect 10, but I can assure you, as long as you play your part as a decent person, lover, boyfriend or husband in this partnership and help each other blossom, she can become a perfect 10 in your eyes.
Here are what netizens think:
- Harsh truth but some guys really need to hear it. The women who some of these guys target for are of high maintenance; spent alot on their clothes and makeup, goes to cafe and restaurants for their meals. In short, they have expensive lifestyle. I have heard of guys who actually wants a trophy wife but they obviously don’t have the means to support one. They want their wife to go back to their original shape and size after giving birth yet these same guys dont want to help out with the kids (so their wife got the time to exercise) or pay for a helper to help out at home or provide funds for their wife to go for slimming or aesthetic treatments. Alot of expectations for their woman but no means to help support.
- Very nice politically correct speech. But at the end of the day, ask a woman if she’d get with a man who earns less than her, and 99% of the time, the answer would be no.
- Hahah. Gonna be waiting for LessThan4KGuy to update us with his reply. Before calling someone a gold-digger, make sure you have gold for them to dig first, k?