I used to think that most men were strong, independent and capable of taking care of themselves. But as I have grown up, I have noticed that this is not always the case.
A lot of men like ‘gu niang’, only know how to live off women
I have on many occasions seen how some men rely totally on women to pay for their expenses and pay for them to have fun.
It seems like some men today are too weak and soft. They want the women to do all the work and take care of them. They think that if they don’t, they won’t be able to have a good time.
They don’t understand that it takes strength and hard work to make something of yourself.
It makes me so angry to see these men relying on women to pay for them. They expect them to take care of them and never even think about giving back.
I have a few people whom I personally know owes their woman a lot of money from simple things like their share of the drinks when they go out and have fun with their friends.
It shows a lack of respect for the woman and for all the hard work she does.
I know that some men are genuinely unable to pay for their own expenses and may even need help from time to time but that is alright if they at least put in some effort to try to do something for themselves.
But there are many more men who simply don’t want to work hard and take responsibility for themselves.
They get away with relying on women and never have to worry about their finances. I think this is a common issue in today’s world and something needs to be done about it.
It’s an unfortunate reality that some men will never learn to be strong and independent. They will always rely on someone else to do the work for them.