I think I deserve better
There’s this guy I met online. He’s my age and he cooks steak and shares my faith.
I mean the only reason I hold on is because I feel like he’s nice, shares my faith and my wishes and taste. Plus he can cook and clean . But recently, he didn’t give me the sense of security and assurance I need when it comes to the topic of cheating. He’d give me that giggle like he’s hiding something. Weird.
It also didn’t help that my friend told me that all married men cheat behind their wives’ back. A bit hesitant to marry but also don’t wanna be alone.
I calculated that it would take $20k to start a family of 2 kids.
I feel that somehow, I deserve a better guy
I earn more than my current partner. I earn close to $10k. I can cook, I clean, I can grow plants too. Plus I am better than him in bed, I usually I initiate it. He lasts maybe 10min. I can go on for an hour 3x a day. Do I deserve better?
Here are what netizens think:
- too full of yourself
- If you think you deserve better with all your so-called attributes and earning power, you ought to go ahead and find better guys out there. Why are you complaining here?
- Why is it a question anymore? Asking for advice so you will feel less guilty? You already despised him. Looks like you think he is inferior to you in all aspects. By the way you use the word “nice” so you have no attraction for him. The thorn of the issue is earning power right? Leave and go get a more “superior” man. I’m sure you can . You think only you have options and he doesn’t have?
- However “all married men cheat” is an emotional sweeping statement and doesn’t do justice to countless faithful married men out there.