A girl shared how she “kinda” likes being ugly and that despite having never been in a relationship before or had her first kiss, she is okay with it.
Here is the story:
I kinda like being ugly.
I’m (25f) nothing special to look at. Never been in a relationship, held hands with a guy, or had my first kiss. I’ve always been in the background, a little bit shy and never been asked out.
For a long time I always wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with someone who genuinely likes me, just like my friends. But I think the older I get, the more I realize it’s not going to happen and I’m okay with it. Honest.
It gets lonely a lot but I’ve learned to do things for myself and it’s nice. Really. And for what I lack physically, I make up for academically. I’m not a genius like Einstein but I sure know my numbers.
Netizens’ comments
- Love the self-acceptance, I believe you’re not as ugly as you think you are. For me, beauty really radiates inside out, and you sound lovely to me. And “beauty is in the eyes of the beholder” is really true too. I feel ugly too but bringing up my ugliness to people who genuinely love me only hurts them, so I learned to have peace with my not-conventionally attractive face, and live really gets easier and more fun. Yay to the self-acceptance energy!
- Just for this way you feel, I already like you. Don’t stress it. As we get older we come to realize how little looks matter.. I’m 30M and have had really great relationships with attractive people, now I’m alone for like 5 years after moving. I’m working on myself and it’s not easy.. But my standards have gone from wanting an extremely attractive woman to needing a loving, caring, sensitive, smart, deep, loyal woman that makes me happy. I’m sure we’ll both find the right person eventually! Don’t give up and just be your best self until then.