I was on my first date with a girl I had met the week before at a party. We had hit it off, and I was really looking forward to our date.
Little did I know that this date would take a strange turn when she asked me if I have chest hair. I was a little taken aback, as this isn’t something that usually comes up on a first date.
She went on to explain that she only dates men with chest hair. She said she likes the feeling of a bear and that it makes her feel safe and secure.
I had to admit, I found her preference strange. I mean, it’s not like chest hair is a prerequisite for a good relationship or anything. I also wondered how she had figured out that I was a guy without chest hair. It seemed like an odd thing to bring up on a first date.
Still, I was curious. I asked her why chest hair was so important to her. She told me that she just found it attractive. She said it made a man look more masculine and that it gave her a sense of security.
I had to admit, I found her explanation interesting. I had never thought of chest hair in that way before.
I also couldn’t help but feel a bit of pressure to meet her standards. I mean, I had no idea if I even had chest hair or not. I had never really paid attention to it before.
But I decided that I wasn’t going to let this one thing ruin our date. I decided to just go with it and see where things went.
So, I asked her what she would do if I didn’t have chest hair. She said she would still give me a chance, but that she would still prefer it if I had chest hair.
In my mind, “You want me to shave my cat and glue some on my chest anot?”
I was relieved to hear that she wasn’t completely against the idea of dating me without chest hair. But I still couldn’t help but feel a little weird about the whole thing.
At the end of the date, I thanked her for the honest conversation and wished her a good night. But I still couldn’t help but think about the chest hair thing. I had never been on a date before where someone had asked me such a personal question.
It made me wonder if this girl was really serious about only dating men with chest hair. Was this a deal breaker for her? Or was she just curious?
I decided that I wouldn’t let this stop me from getting to know her better. After all, everyone has their own preferences. And I was willing to give it a shot.