A girl shared how she thinks that she is scaring guys away because she is too straightforward and has a “masculine” personality.
Here is the story
I am a straightforward woman. Having trouble finding a relationship.
Female here. I’m here to get advice on how to find a proper guy? I seem to scare guys off because I’m either too straightforward or too masculine in personality.
When attached, I do talk things out with my exes when things go wrong but turns out, most of them didn’t care about listening to me.
Maybe I shouldn’t point out things anymore when I’m so upset about it?
So is my masculinity a problem? I know I have my flaws. I guess I can be clingy. I can learn to be less clingy but I think I’m just attracting or meeting the wrong men.
Dating sites makes everyone so dishonest, btw. I stopped relying on dating apps. I’ve gotten cat fished every time.
Netizens’ comments
- There is no such thing as your appearance is unacceptable. You have not met the right person yet. A right person will accept your whole you, include whether are you fat, ugly, or flaws.
Just be patient awhile and you meet your Mr right soon. - There is no proper guy, you are who you are. If they can accept you, it’s your luck.
If they can’t, you are still perfect as how you accepted yourself. Don’t need to put down yourself for others