Worst date ever!
I matched this guy. He didn’t text much but he wanted to have dinner. I suppose he could be the type of prefers to talk in person so I agreed to meet. Besides, overall vibes was alright so I decided to give it a shot.
Firstly, he was late. No explanation. I decided to continue the date as I was hungry. As we spoke to each other, I noticed his hair wasn’t real. I’m fine with that too as we were just talking. He spoke louder than normal so I tried to take it that he’s just nervous. We waited for over 20 minutes after ordering our food. He started to get upset and spoke to the waitress rudely and demanded to see the manager.
I’m not sure if he’s trying to show me that he’s a bad ass for being so considerate of my hunger or he’s just being mean because he can. By then I was starting to feel uncomfortable. It was dinner hour so I expected a little delay and I didn’t mind using the time to chit chat but he was insistent in showing that he’s unhappy even when I told him I’m ok to wait. He made such a huge fuss I feel so embarrassed the entire duration while we were in the restaurant. I thought we agreed to go dutch but he insisted to pay for dinner. Saying I can treat him the next time. Erm no?
After that night I rejected meeting him again. He went bat shit angry on me and started to throw insults. I blocked him. What a nightmare.
Why am I so sway?
Here are what netizens think:
- Why is this considered sway? You seen his true colour after 1 date. Some people after getting married then see their true colour.
- I would have left him when he threw his wig at the wait staff. He did, didn’t he??
- Never meet up with anyone without chatting with them for a while. Usually the ones who are so eager to meet up aren’t worth your time.
- Chat more to find out if you have similar outlook in life, similar interests etc before you make the time to meet up.