My girlfriend of 5years broke up with me, we had a daughter together but didn’t ROM because of many complication.
I found out before the start of 2023 that she was not gonna ROM with me in 2023 and want leave me silently when she get her own flat.
I told her I found out that she no longer love me and want to leave me. She told me that the reason she’s leaving me is because I never care enough for her and our daughter, I never work hard enough and I can’t kick my gambling addiction and i always rather stay out with friends that going home to them.
I used to think that Once i have her, I’ll never lose her but now I regret because she is serious about leaving. I tried to tell her to give me another chance, i am willing to change for the better, for our daughter and her but she tell me that she will not be coming back even if i change.
She still allow me to see our daughter but any topic about me and my girlfriend would be cut off or end up with texts telling me not to try to fix things.
I am not sure if i am able to let go.
I still want to work on myself, change for the better for our daughter and her but knowing she will never come back has cause countless night of evil thoughts thinking about if she will come back in future.
Here are what netizens think:
- It’s time to stop thinking only about yourself.
- It takes a lot of courage to give birth without marriage and I applaud her for that. She knows what she wants and she gave it all. But you gave none. Instead of taking the easy way out being suicidal, start working hard and take up the responsibility to provide a better life for your daughter.
- Why must wait for people to want to leave then decide to change. You should have just changed at the start of the relationship especially so at the birth of your daughter.
- Unless you change for the better, whatever you type here is just nothing but blaming.
- Focus on your gambling habit first.. Once this is change.. Maybe there chance being together being a new you.. She must have given up on your gambling and outing habit.. Don’t ever think of sucial thoughts.. Be brave to change for yourself and not got others