Women Talk
You sound jealous, that’s all.
I have to admit I felt the same way before. I despise women who earn less but accept expensive meals and dates and get chauffered around by dates.
And they will show off all of these on their social media. I despise them. Them who lets their boyfriend(s) pay for everything.
Since I started dating I always insist on going Dutch. I hussle, bought my own car and my own house. I’m in my early 30s now, dating feels different with older men and with my financial status.
Some men were intimidated, some did not know how to play the game because I am not one who lets guys pay for everything.
I eventually settled down with a guy one year younger than me. He earns lesser than me and most times we go Dutch. Only expensive meals for celebration will I take the bill. But I finally settled for this man despise our financial differences because i see him try to get to a better place, to at least be equal with me.
Do I still despise those women/girls who let the guy pay for everything? Yes. Is there a reason for them to say no if they are not financially capable to and the guy is willing? No. But do they need to show off on social media without even a mention of thank you to the date who paid for everything? No.
To all women, let’s have some self respect. And yes gracefully accept fully paid for dates but also remember to be appreciative. Most importantly as a women, rely on no one else but yourself to lead the kind of lifestyle you want.