Boyfriend confessed he is Bi
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I have a boyfriend of 1+ year who just recently confessed to me that he is attracted to his male colleague.
He said that they only flirt and nothing else. He is asked me to let him explore his orientation while still continuing to date him.
I am so confused. If he like guys, isn’t he gay? Or he is bisexual? It’s a little awkward for me.
I accidentally found out that they have been exchanging photos of their “birds”. i confronted him and he said it’s just part of his “exploration”. He say he can stop doing it if I am affected and that he still wants me to be with him.
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Now what? Ladies, what would you do?
Here are what netizens think:
- What do you want from him? Family, kids, comfort, financials, independence, friendship, trust, etc. Plenty of people have open relationships and are happy. Others have no wish for kids while others just want someone to be with at home. Some just enjoy making other people happy. Stop asking other people’s opinions and figure out what you want. At least he’s honest and open. He’s given you a choice which is more than most give.
- If you’re dating to marry, move on. He’s pushing your boundaries now and will continue to do so the longer you stay together.
- Please leave and don’t look back. Find someone who’s willing to work towards a future with you.
- Well… the obvious reason is to leave. Dont even look back please.
- Dump him. Why date a unclear man
- If this is not a red flag.. you are definitely colour blind
- If you okay, can have two daddy in your family
- Bi doesn’t mean he can have one male and one female partner. He may like both males and females, but when it comes to a relationship, he still has to choose one.
- Leave this confused boy. He doesn’t know what he wants and will most likely waste your time. You should be with someone who knows what they want. Let this fella go explore and discover himself.