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GIRL ‘SIAN’ BECAUSE SHE LIKES GUY, BUT HE OTOT THEN REPLY HER

How do you differentiate if someone is really interested in you or just a friendly gesture?

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Background

I knew this guy from work but matched with him on a dating app a few years back.

He was really good-looking and some of my colleagues had a crush on him.

We chatted a bit but I was ghosted eventually which I didn’t bother too much about because (you know!) it’s a dating app. People ghost people.

I was used to it even though I was really hoping that our conversation would last.

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Fast forward a few years later, we reconnected back recently via instagram. Though chats, I knew he had switched his career path and I had moved to a new city to work.

We were in different cities but not so far off by flight. We chatted a bit more and decided to meet up in his city as I had planned a visit to his city that weekend.

We met and exchanged numbers after that and continue to chat to this very day. He does send some flirty messages sometimes.

He will take his time to reply me

That’s where my dilemma starts (or it’s not). As we were in different cities and even though we chat with each other every day, he was very very slow in replies.

The replies can even come in only the very next day or 2 days later. He would still apologize every single time for late replies as he said he was drown in work.

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I can understand this as he just kick started his new path and I wasn’t in the position to expect him to reply to me instantly or even reply to me at all. I have my own priorities too.

I double texted sometimes but I wouldn’t want to triple text or quadruple text even though he said it’s ok to do so because he’s a workaholic.

Nevertheless, he would still make the effort to reply to me even when the replies are very slow. But, I was also contemplating on how busy can a man be until he cannot take the time to reply to messages for 5 minutes.

The reason of me having this kind of dilemma is because I’ve met a guy, whom I really like, who is like that before.

He would still try to look for me everyday but in the end, he told me it’s just a friendly gesture, not because he took a liking for me.

Since then, I try to avoid overthinking this kind of thing even though they were potential candidates to me.

I’d probably had the answer on the back of my mind but I still don’t know if I should wait around or let others come into my life.

Out of all my potential candidates, this guy is ticking all the boxes on my list but I really don’t know if he’s interested in me or just a friendly gesture to pass time.

What should I do?

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