I’m so tired of men lying just to get me to spread my legs
I’ve been lied to by men I trusted and groomed by a man twice my age and gotten drunk by a man I know would have used me if he had gotten a chance.
I had my heart broken by a man pretending he cared and held my hand when he never felt any love for me.
And yet I still take chances on men, meeting them through dating apps and hoping this one’s different.
I make it clear what I’m looking for. I set boundaries. And these men have the audacity to try and use me for fun like I’m their plaything.
And all I want is to feel love but there are so many crappy men out there just trying to use me that will lie to my face bout their intentions.
I’m tired of having to sift through them just to find someone who cares. I can’t trust people anymore.
Netizens’ comments
- I’m a woman myself; been through the same shit myself. Nothings gonna change until we all do something about it, both men and women. You have loving men out here, and those shit stains do make them look bad too. People need to be held more accountable.
- I’ve been fortunate to have met a few decent people through apps but that’s because I’m very picky about it and I unmatch/block without explanation if even one tiny ick or red flag comes up.
At the end of the day, I don’t know these people, and we don’t owe eachother anything unless it does go further. I don’t meet with them if I’m not entirely confident about them.
Some seem to assume that one dry “hi, how are you?” convo means they’re entitled to sleeping with me and find my other social media to cuss me out and call me names.