My 24year old boyfriend is mad at me for telling him he doesn’t care that I am sick with covid.
On Thursday I had a horrible fever and didn’t want to move, much less take care of our 1 yr old by myself. He went to party, he told me he’d come deliver me food right after practice. Instead, he stayed an extra 2 hours to eat there and get himself signed in and help a friend get moved in.
I was upset by this and told him he didn’t care that I was here sick. He then got very mad at me and said “how dare I say he doesn’t care about me when he does everything for me.” Which I meant he didn’t care that I felt sick. He says he didn’t realize how sick I felt or he’d right away.
I am upset because he didn’t come home when he said he would when I felt too sick to do anything.
The rest of the day he wouldn’t talk to me until that night when he got mad at me again for saying he didn’t care and told me that I am ungrateful and always complain. He then also called me a psychopath for always complaining and driving him insane. we would apparently never argue if I didn’t complain and wasn’t so ungrateful. Maybe I shouldn’t have told him that I think he doesn’t care.. but it seemed like he had more important things to do in his eyes…
He hasn’t talked to me in 2 days.
I was in shock because he was being so mean to me while I was sick and I didn’t see how what I said was so horrible to deserve that treatment. Is it bad of me to claim that he doesn’t care? I know he cares about me in general because he does alot for me but by me saying that he didn’t care, he says I’m ungrateful .