A netizen shared how her sister who lives with her family, tested positive for covid and as a result, her boyfriend has been avoiding visiting her home; and she then called him a coward.
She then invited another guy to her house and slept with him, then blames her boyfriend for herself cheating.
Here is the story
A week ago, my sister tested positive for covid and since then, she has been isolating herself. We share a room but I subsequently moved to my mom’s room. Though there’s only one toilet at home, my mom cleans the toilet frequently. Ever since I told my bf about my sister, he has been avoiding coming over my house.
My bf and I have been together for 6 years. He has always been very caring towards me. 5 days ago, I asked him to come over my house to cook dinner with me but he declined, saying he doesn’t want to risk contracting covid and passing the virus to his parents and grandparents who live with him. But I think it probably has nothing to do with his family because he doesn’t interact much with his family. So I don’t think he truly cares about infecting them. Honestly, I think he’s behaving like a useless coward. It’s just a virus, won’t die what.
I think it’s perfectly okay for him to come over my house because my mom cleans the house quite regularly. But he said we should wait for a week before seeing each other again. We used to meet up almost everyday but for the past week, he would just place my favourite food and desserts at my door everyday without coming inside my house.
And every single day, he would remind me to take the ART test, drink more water and sleep early. I find him super annoying and hypocritical. If he really loves me, he shouldn’t have acted like a coward right? What’s the point of reminding me to take the test if we’re not gonna meet? What’s the point of placing food at my door everyday when I can order food myself?
So a few days ago, I asked one of my guy friends to come over my house. Because I felt quite lonely, we ended up sleeping with each other. My bf happened to see his shoes at the door when he was placing the food at my door and he confronted me about it. We ended up quarrelling and he got very upset at me for bringing a guy home.
I really don’t understand why he’s so upset. He chose to not come over my house and because he didn’t want to come over, I got lonely and had to resort to asking someone else to come. So this is all his fault. Yet he still had the audacity to get all upset over this. Worst of all, he said I should apologise for what I did. To be honest, I don’t think I’m wrong. It was just an accident so I don’t really wish to apologise but I also don’t want to lose my bf. We have been together for so long and I do love him a lot. What should I do?
Netizens’ comments
- Please dump your bf. He deserves better. And yes, you should not apologise for sleeping around. Its your “harm’s” fault for being itchy.
- You are a real piece of work
- Accident? Y’all accidentally slept with each other ah? Jialat sia. Then no such things as murderers. They accidentally poked people with a weapon when playing tag only. How they know the person will die. Accidentally one leh.