My boyfriend was stressed at work these past few months and I supported him by helping him forget about it by making him feel busy or letting him do whatever he wants. We are in a long distance relationship right now.
I didn’t mind when he poured down all the stress on me by being annoyed at me for the simplest reasons, shouting at me and just being irritated most of the time.
He said he’ll be fine once the stress at work is over and to just let him be and to wait for that time to come. I understood him so I was just there beside him to the point that I was also so stressed and my health was declining.
Nowadays the stress was gone and his company is better. My boyfriend’s old self never went back. Instead he’s still irritated at small things, blames me for everything (ex: not being able to buy the hobbies that he likes because it was suddenly sold out or I just didn’t see his message because I was busy or alike).
When we were playing games he asks me to guide him, I guided him but when he can’t understand my instruction he gets mad but when I was the one asking him to guide me because I was having a hard time in that certain game, he got mad too and said it was just too simple, why I couldn’t follow.
I asked him when is his old self coming back in the sweetest way because I don’t want him to get triggered. I even said I’ll be there and we’ll go through it together.
He said he was tired of me because we always do the same thing all over again, that he always waits for me to wake up for me to answer his questions.
One time he told me he’s going out in the morning to buy his hobbies and he told me to rest but ended up going out in the afternoon so I was surprised when I woke up and I told him about it and then he said that I triggered him.
He said he don’t want the relationship anymore because I always don’t listen (when all things we do is what he wants and I always help him decide on things and also I was always there for him) and we are doing the same thing everyday.
Take note that it was him who asks me what do I wanna do always or I ask him what does he wanna do just to be fair. It was him who wants to play and watch movies/series/anime. He says he’s bored of it.
I always tell him he can do things on his own like watch his fave anime or play games. A couple needs their alone time too right? But he insists on doing those things with me.
Should I fight for this relationship or just give up?