Soooo, it’s my third-year of medical school and my first actual year of clinical exposure (where we get to the hospitals and stuff; there’s three years of clinical rotations here in NUS before we can gradute from medical school). And I’m feeling really stressed. Not just because the final exams are coming soon (just over a month later in the first week of May), but also because I find that with so much time spent on studying, there’s not much left for things like exercise, my previous hobbies like netball, and dating. So sick and tired of medicine.
Don’t wanna use dating apps because of the stigma. It’s a last-resort as I have heard horror stories from that. Pretty sure I can meet guys irl first?
Currently single (for 2+ years) ever since I broke up with my first bf from JC, and keen on dating. What do you all think of the idea of dating a batchmate from my cohort? I feel like with dating a batchmate, since we’d have a lot in common and we can probably relate a lot to each other. But I don’t know anyone else apart from my CG (clinical group).
I have a secret fantasy about dating an older guy too, so, hmm… I imagine that most of the guys in my batch are my age cos of army disruption, but I think that there should be a few who had completed NS first. There’re also some who transferred in right?
Too bad I’m not chio la. Just a 5/10 (prob 6.5/10 with good makeup) plain Jane, and never had a guy confess enthusiastically to me before. If only there were a way for me to meet more my batchmates… I secretly want a cute oppa batchmate to confess to me hehehehe
Here are what netizens think:
- Go and STUDY! Don’t WASTE your TIME trying to go dating. We need clever & dedicated doctors. Finish housemanship first then think of dating.
- You have so much time ahead of you. If you have no time for social life now how to have time to build a relationship now.
- Graduate first. After you enter work society. Lotsa chance to date