Will you choose someone who loves you, or someone you love? Let’s call the former Person A and the latter Person B. Both are interested in me, and I’m conflicted.
Person A is shy but made the effort to confess to me.
He is a wonderful guy, with a slight difference in lifestyle. I can tell the amount of effort he puts into me, and he is really everything I am looking for. He is the type to accompany me to watch the sunset and study when I am alone. He also helps me with anything I require assistance with.
I feel really comfortable with him whenever we hang out. He makes an effort to talk to me and tries not to end the conversation. However, I love humorous guys, and he is not all that funny. Sometimes I find him boring. But I do like him because he is really nice and treats me really well. I know that if I get together with him, I will love him back and treat him well too.
But I also know that I might get irritated when he’s boring or nags.
Person B is shy too, but did not make the effort to confess to me.
I only knew that he liked me from our mutual friends. He is really tall and cute. I initiated the conversation with him, and I was attracted to him from the first time I talked to him. He’s really funny, and he makes me laugh all the time. We can click very well too. But he is not the type to accompany me whenever I am alone.
I created the opportunity to be alone with him and asked him to study and eat with me, only to get disappointed as he joined our mutual friend group for study dates. We don’t chat as often, and he often leaves me on read. We have similar lifestyles, but it gets a little awkward when we are alone.
I know that I like him more than Person A, but he is not treating me as well, and I’m worried that I will be hurt and disappointed while in the relationship.
If you were me, would you accept Person A’s confession, or would you wait for Person B? I’m not here for criticism, so you can save your time if you are not giving any advice:)