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Wednesday, November 13, 2024
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GIRL STRUGGLES TO MOVE ON FROM RELATIONSHIP THAT GAVE HER MENTAL BREAKDOWN

How do y’all cope?

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Broke up with a guy I’ve been seeing for a year and a half hrecently because we seem to bring out the worst in each other and have major unresolvable issues- quarrelling every week over silly lame things, calling it quits at least once a month and attempting to go thru with it, not being understanding to each other’s wants and needs, and jus overall, a bad fit due to circumstances.

Can’t believe this tiring situation actually went on for so long.

Not sure abt him but… Despite evaluating everything and knowing that this is the right choice to make, the feeling I have for him is still real and it still hurts a crazy lot.

I know we shouldn’t be together and a part of me shudder at the thought of having to go thru all these again but I can’t seem to let it go and this feeling really sucks big time. Feels like a mental torture.

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I know it’s standard relationship fanfare and many have gone thru this phase but…

Any suggestions on healthy ways to move forward from here?

Here are what netizens think:

  • You are trying to forget something by focusing on it , won’t work well that way. Go n do something else you enjoy to keep yourself occupied:)
  • That’s call life lessons. Not everyone who enters your life is going to stick around or meet your expectations. The sooner you realize it, the easier your life will be.
  • Focus on yourself. Pick up a healthy hobby. Talk to someone that’s reliable. If not, just write things down in diary. Go out and walk around in nature, beach side or just nearby park. Things can be tough, but with time, eventually everything will pass by.
  • It’s good that you realised that it’s bad and worse to continue. And having the courage to cut it off now is probably the best decision you ever made in your life. Go out there, meet new friends, talk to people, go do activities that you’ve never done before… Catch up with friends, enjoy singlehood! Applause to you babe !
  • think hard….if he is a pain ..would you go back to the pain? just go out and enjoy yourself..mixed with more people..love self more, improve on self…learn to sing..learn to bake ect… there are so many things to do besides “love” really…walk towards pleasure in life
  • This kind of stuff time is the only cure, plus keep yourself occupied with your hobby.
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