How do I find female friends?
Hi, I am 21F studying International Relations at SIM-UOL. I never had trouble making friends with girls until I was betrayed by individuals in the friend groups I was in.
At this very moment, it dawned on me that I am now left with zero female friends and a small group of fewer than 5 friends composed of guys whom I’m mostly unable to meet because it crosses my boyfriend’s boundaries.
I am an INFP-T/Sagittarius. Even though I prefer to stay home, I am up for anything fun (sports/gaming/drinks).
Ngl I truly believe that being so closed off has affected many aspects of my life, I have no one to vent to; it lowered my self-esteem; I guess I’m just not satisfied anymore.
I need this interaction even if it may cause me to cry next to a toilet bowl over a friendship breakup lol. Reading stories about having family members as the bridesmaids scared the #%* out of me and I absolutely do not want that.
- Join activity clubs and make an effort to talk to people and meetup outside of club time, even if it’s just a meal before or after activity at the start
- You can try using the Meetup app to try and find activities that meet your needs. From socialising to doing physical activities, they have pretty much everything. Just need to find one that fits your schedule.
- It depends, do you want female friends so you can maybe become more than friends; or really just friends? Usually there will be reunions and can keep in touch with your secondary/jc/poly female classmates. It also depends on your interests, like if you are into kpop then more girls will share this interests compared to say soccer.