My boyfriend, who I’d been with for two years, had been acting strangely lately. He had just told me he was going on a weekend trip with his friends to Johor Bahru. He seemed excited, but I couldn’t help but feel a bit uneasy.
He did not have a habit of grooming his ‘down there’.
The tipping point for me was when I noticed he had shaved his ‘kkj’ hair before the trip. This was something he had never done before, and it just seemed so out of character for him because he was pretty lazy with his grooming.
I had to know what was going on.
I confronted him about it and he got angry. He told me I was being ridiculous and that I was reading too much into it. He said I was being paranoid and that I was the one who was going to ruin the weekend for him.
He was so mad that he did not contact me and left for Johor Bahru without telling me that he has already left Singapore.
I let him go, but I was still suspicious. Turns out, my suspicion was right all along.
My boyfriend had not logged out of his Instagram from his computer and I decided to look it up because I was really suspicious.
While looking at the Insta stories on his profile, I saw a girl’s story which showed that my boyfriend and her were clearly having a good time and looked to be very close.
Further stories even showed that she gave him a peck on his cheeks. My heart sank and I couldn’t believe it that he had been cheating on me for I don’t know how long.
It broke my heart and I don’t know how I can trust men ever again.