Just a rant… My bf and I met through CMB. We’ve been tgt for 8 months.
At first, he was very gentle and nice to me. But recently, he is no longer the man I thought he was.
He easily got triggered over small things, such as me teasing him and making fun of him. Things I usually said before and it was ok but now he would be angry and go cold.
Last week, I happen to think about CMB and re-download the app. I just wanted to see what we talked about last time, cuz I missed that… But to my surprise, I saw his profile changed. It was subtle, but I noticed 1 photo has been removed since the last time when he said let’s uninstall the app.
Needless to say, I was shocked and frozen and shattered.
I knew he got his problems but I never imagined he could cheat on me. In my mind, there are hundreds of questions. Could it be that the app bugged since he hasn’t logged in for a while? Or did he really log in to find someone new?
I have been keeping it quiet but it’s killing me inside. I know I can’t let go of him as it will hurt me too much, but I really now think I’m the only one who’s in love, and I’m deceiving myself. And that I should get out of this relationship and end this hurt.
Here are what netizens think:
- Detective time: Wait , you can download the app again but he cannot?
- You talk to him about it la. You ask us, we ask who?? Cannot be we go download now and go undercover for you ma.. Or should we?
- The trust is no longer there. And a relationship cannot be built on the foundation of lies and insecurities. If u have your doubts, clear them. Otherwise, pls move on.