Boyfriend’s friend
My boyfriend and I are polar opposites, I am very introverted and shy while my boyfriend is very outgoing. He likes to hang out with his groups of friends and would always bring me along. We have been together for almost 2.5 years now. At the beginning I was very shy and awkward and hated these outings. Over time it got better as I know his friends better.
Recently he started going out more often with a male friend (B) who just came back from his overseas studies. Just like how I try to be friendlier with my boyfriend’s closer friends, I did the same with B. However I find myself getting attracted to B… He is more similar to me, less outgoing but still fun loving. Likes pets just like I do, similar perspective and outlook. I have to admit out of all of my boyfriend’s friends, I tend to be able to carry the conversations with B a lot more naturally.
I have not taken any action of course. I still love my boyfriend a lot. But I am worried the more we hang out together, the more easily I might be tempted some day. What should I do to protect my relationship with my boyfriend?
Here are what netizens think:
- If the intention is to protect the relationship, stop hanging out with B. There will not be any positive outcome. If the intention is to see if you and B have a chance together, chances are yes and probably can consider givng it a try.Don’t ever expect best of both worlds and you can choose only 1. Either way, hope that you make a decision which best suits you. All the best.
- The most obvious answer is alrdy in your confession….Stop meeting him…duh…. btw, if u are a in a r/s with your bf for 2.5 yrs and suddenly you felt attracted to a dude who only appeared recently, that just shows your love for your bf is weak. 2.5 yrs tog and u brought out the “polar opposite” excuse? come on…
- You’re not married, you still can explore other options. Just don’t wait till it’s too late (like 1 day before the wedding). Marriage can make or break your life, choose wisely. Follow your heart.