I’m a girl and I never get called pretty by guys nor my own friends. I don’t even think I’ve ever been called pretty by my mom, or at least it was so long ago that I can’t remember it.
The only time people say I was pretty or cute is when looking at pictures of me when i was little(5-8yo).
The only compliment I ever get about my looks is about my hair (I have very curly hair which is kinda uncommon in my family).
And that even is only by adults/elders (mostly in my family), most people my age and my friends actually make fun of it and say i look like a clown or like I’m wearing a cheap wig.
I know it’s all jokes but it’s practically the only thing about me I kinda like.
I’ve only ever had one person have a crush on me and that was in P1. And I’m just not attractive in any way I don’t look good nor have a skinny waist and it has just really been messing with my self esteem and worth recently.
I am tempted to get some plastic surgery
Stop it. Stop it now. Youve been conditioned to believe that. I understand because Ive been there. Dont be me, dont wait until youre 34 after traumatizing relationships to see that you are beautiful and that you are more than worthy.
Dont ever let others opinions GUIDE you. How you feel about you will resonate in the world and youll attract ppl who aee the beauty and light in you