I have always been a skeptic when it comes to dating and relationships. So when I was asked out for a date with a guy and he told me he only wanted to watch a show and chill over drinks, I was immediately suspicious.
Thought that he was lying because ‘netflix and chill’ means something to guys
I mean, who actually believes that line? I was convinced he was lying and he only wanted to have s- with me.
I had heard stories from my friends about guys who asked them out and then it turned out they only wanted to sleep with them. I had heard about the concept of “Netflix and chill” and I was familiar with its implications.
It was a phrase that was used to describe a situation where one person was trying to get the other person to sleep with them.
So, with all of this in mind, I was convinced this guy was lying to me. He told me he only wanted to watch a show and chill over drinks, but I knew what he really meant. He wanted to have s- with me and he was trying to be subtle about it.
At first, I didn’t know what to do. I was torn between going on the date and having a good time, or calling him out on his lie and ending the date before it even began.
After a lot of thought, I decided to go on the date. I wanted to see if my suspicions were correct or if he truly did just want to watch a show and have some drinks.
Turns out, he really didn’t want to have S-
When we met up, I was still skeptical. I was expecting him to try and push for something more than a night in watching a show. But, to my surprise, he actually did just want to watch a show and have some drinks. We had a great time and I realized that he was being honest with me and he wasn’t lying.
In the end, I was glad that I stuck with my gut and went on the date. I realized that not all guys are like the ones I had heard stories about and that some are actually genuine and honest.
There are still times when I get suspicious when a guy asks me out, but I try to remind myself that not all guys are the same and that some are genuinely looking for something more than just a one-night stand.