A guy shared how he has been with his current girlfriend for 7 years and when he asked her if she sees a future with him, she said “no” because he doesn’t earn enough to meet her “expectations”.
Here is the story:
“I’m together with my girlfriend since 2015. In these 7 years, I never went to her house for gatherings (even Christmas or CNY)(i only met the mum before and the dad dont even know me). Every time I ask her when am I able to meet your family then she will tell me soon or after she finishes her exams.
Last year she told me that she doesn’t know if she can see a future with me because I dont earn enough to meet her expectations. Being the youngest in the family, she feels that bringing a guy back to meet her family means telling her family I’m the one she’s gonna marry.
After I knew that, I changed to a higher-paying job but she’s still not too fond of it.
I always gave her the best, buy the things she want even it would empty my bank but I don’t know what’s wrong now. Money is important but how much is enough and how much is too little?
All I asked is to visit her family this CNY.
When I asked if she wants this relationship, she say she dont have an answer for me.
I dont want to end 7 years of relationship because of this…”
Editor’s note: If that’s the case, then she has wasted 7 years of your life. Cut your losses, leave her ASAP.