How do you move on from someone you cannot be with?
Everything started at its peak but slowly came crashing down, causing both of us emotional stress, pain, and unhappiness.
I believe we truly have each other interests at heart and want each other to do well and thrive in life.
But with time, as we learned more about our priorities, lifestyle, belief, etc., we soon realized we weren’t compatible.
The feelings were intense, and it was hard to let go, but we are at a phase where there is too much pain to bear, and we can no longer take on the supporting role of helping each other to achieve greater heights or be the pillar for the person. At times, I could feel strong resentment, anger, and sadness toward me, which hurt me a lot.
I know it is not right of me to hold the person back, and hence I am trying my best to let go. I have been told that I am exhibiting many toxic traits, and that made me wonder why every time a disagreement happens, I am the one to put to blame. I tried my best to manage my emotion in every heated argument, and all I ever wanted was for my partner to be happy, and that is all I really wanted. For people that I care about, that matter, for them to be happy.
I am sorry this sounded negative. I really just needed a channel to let my feelings out. If you have read until here, thanks for listening, and I wish everyone a happy new year.
Here are what netizens think:
- The moment the person doesn’t wanan be with u, like it or not, u have to move on. I dunno how to move on from someone U love cos it’s super hard, but just fill ur life with other activities and remind urself life is more than just love. Love is a small component
- If ur partner calls u toxic, he/she maybe the same or worse. Just trying to make u feel guilty about it. The more u think about how this person makes u unhappy, the more u will slowly let go. No point trying to make the person happy if he/she is unhappy 24/7 & wants u to be unhappy too. Close this chapter for good and open a new chapter for a better life.
- Never allow you to believe that you are the sole toxic person and the only reason the relationship failed. Good to reflect back but it takes two to clap,