Need perspective of guys here.
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I just started dating this guy I really like, but during dates, he doesn’t seem interested and talks to me maybe only 50% of the time.
Every conversation that I try to start, he sometimes give one word answers.
But when we are in group dates, he listens intently to everything I say and sometimes brings up in the future, some things minor I’ve mentioned before that maybe shows he is interested in me after all?
He is such a social butterfly and conversations flow when he is with others. Only when he is one to one with me, he seems quiet.
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What do you think guys? Why this split personality?
Here are what netizens think:
- Remembering minor details about you doesn’t mean he is interested in you. Other than the possibility of interest, the other reason could also be that he has a good memory and is an active listener in nature.
- Because you are interested in him, you picked up everything about what he did and tried it to match it on your own ‘he is interested in me meter’. Based on what you say, he isn’t interested in you.
- When a guy likes you, he will be intentional in his interactions with you and make sure you know his intent. If you have to keep guessing. Answer is no.
- I don’t think he is interested in you. Probably talking to you(when in grps) to show that he’s a charm to all ladies. Probably targeting another female in your group.
- Because everyone has different sides. In a one on one setting, he is only able to see side A of you. In a social setting, your friends bring out side B, C and D of you. And when you’re with your family, they’ll bring out sides E, F and G of you. It’s normal. Don’t overthink.