Recently I met a guy on a dating app and he suggested to meet up which I agreed. We went to a cafe and ordered a coffee each.
Afterwards, he suggested a walk in a shopping mall so I thought he was interested to know me more after the coffee date.
It got closer to dinner time and he suggested to eat at a food court which was super crowded and definitely not a good place to talk. Both of us come from decently wealthy families and work in very well-paid industries. I was not expecting a high-class restaurant or something, but maybe not a food court? Maybe some ramen restaurants or reasonably priced western food restaurants like Astons? So I am confused, is he interested in me? If yes, why did he suggest food court when I had introduced many other food options inside that shopping mall? If not, why did he suggest the walk and the dinner subsequently?
Here are what netizens think:
- Smart guy
- Our first date was at a food court. After 18 years, we’re still going to food courts.
- You actually passed the test but when you post your experience online, you got immediate failure. Better luck next time.
- Some girls are really annoyingly complicated. Don’t like food court just tell him. Any questions ask the guy. How will other people know?
- Foodcourt got wrong meh? Food court also can talk mah. It’s u girls from younger generation thinking we ladies “deserve” more. And Anw guys, you all also don’t take advantage of girls. It takes 2 hands to clap.
- Every action tells a story. Based on his action, he is not interested in impressing you. He just want to spend the least amount of money on that date. If a guy in interested in you, they will try to impress you….at least for the first date, he won’t bring u to a food court. If he is low on budget he will choose a decent mid class restaurant like ramen place or something. But if he doesn’t even bother to impress you, then his actions tells me two things. He is not interested in you OR he just prioritize himself more.
- Hes humble and dont mind eating anywhere. Doesnt mean if hes interested in you means he needs to spend more just to know you. Thats wrong.