I always thought that having a friends with benefits relationship was the best way to go, especially when I wasn’t looking for anything serious.
I thought it was the perfect way to have no strings attached fun with someone that I enjoyed spending time with.
Started to realise that I wanted more than just a FWB relationship with him
But I never imagined that I’d be in a situation where I’d be so unhappy.
At first, I was happy with my FWB. We had a great connection and he was always up for having a good time. We had a lot of fun together and I felt like I could trust him.
But then things started to change. I noticed that he was spending more and more time with other partners. He seemed to be seeing more partners other than me and I was feeling a little jealous and left out.
I asked him about it and he said that he was just having fun and that he wasn’t looking for anything serious, plus the relationship that I was having with him was not supposed to be serious.
That was when I realised that I might have developed some feelings for him because I wanted more. I wanted to be exclusive with him and I wanted him to be exclusive with me.
But he didn’t seem to be interested in that. I was starting to feel like I was falling in love with him and I knew that I shouldn’t be feeling that way. I was so confused and I didn’t know what to do.
I decided to end the relationship. It was a difficult decision but I knew that it was for the best. I couldn’t keep feeling like this and I knew that I had to do something.
I was scared that if I stayed in the relationship, I would really fall for him and get hurt even more.