Friend tricked me and set me up with a guy. I wasn’t even looking for a relationship. Now the guy wouldn’t stop bothering me.
For context, I met my friend for lunch, before our food arrived, she said a guy friend of hers was in the area and asked if he could join us for lunch. I agreed since it would be mean of me to let him eat alone, knowing we are nearby.
I know him briefly but just as an acquaintance. So the 3 of us managed to keep the conversation going for a short while till my friend said she had an emergency and left me alone with the guy.
I tried to be polite and stayed till we finished our meal. That is when the guy confessed our friend set us up. He said he had good feelings about me and wanted to get to know me.
That was when all my politeness went out the window. Firstly I was upset to be lied to. Why can’t he just be upfront instead of tricking me to show up at a restaurant? I was also upset with my friend for being involved in this trickery too.
I declined meeting him again but he insisted I give him a chance and continued to contact me. How many times do I have to say no? Now my friend apologised to me after knowing he was so persistent and creepy.
His looks is barely average. I don’t care if he’s loaded. That’s a hard no from the creepy vibes he’s emitting. I’ve since blocked him. I can sense him wanting to bed me from the way he looks at me and it’s a huge turn off.
Guys, have some dignity. When a girl says no. It’s a NO!. Stop trying to hard sell yourself. If you’re so confident of yourself, don’t use tricks to get a date!
Netizens’ comments
- “His looks is barely average”…bet if he looks like Jackson Wang she would had hump at him at the very 1st moment
- Now this story would have very been different if he was good looking.
- “His looks is barely average”
Are you actually Scarlett Johansson - Would love to know how the poster looks like.
- My friend knows you. He said you’re not chio that’s why your friend set you up.