What should I do? Boyfriend grinded someone at the club
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Boyfriend went clubbing with his friends, grinded someone and did not tell me. Was exposed by his friend and subsequently admitted.
Asked about what he would do with his clubbing plans next month (booked wayyyy before this incident) and he said he doesn’t want to cancel it.
What do I do now? Am I being overly sensitive for thinking that this is cheating and worthy of a breakup? What do you guys think. I’m in a mess rn.
Netizens’ comments
- Lol, he only admitted after being exposed. He gonna silence his clubbing buddies and you won’t get anymore updates of him.
- Today he grind. Tomorrow he bang. Dont be stupid la. He knows he has a gf and still go out play like a single guy. Break la.
- That’s a perfectly normal reaction and you’re not being overly sensitive. You need to have a real talk with him. If he can’t see that he’s in the wrong and not willing to make amends, your solution is clear.
- Yes it is cheating. And clearly he intends to do it again. This time it’s grinding, if the girl is willing next time it’ll be making out followed by ONS. I’m so sorry, but this is the kind of guy who will continue to hurt you.
- Nope. Basically cheating and he clearly feels no remorse if he doesn’t even want to cancel future clubbing plans even though this is clearly affecting you