My boyfriend expressed it was gross to eat me down there, which explains why he’s never gone down on me. How do I break up with him?
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I’m not super experienced. I’ve only had mediocre head given to me and I don’t wanna live the rest of my life not having good experiences in bed.
It’s not that we have completely bad intercourse but I don’t receive a lot, which makes sense since he thinks going down on girls is gross.
I can’t see myself being with someone who thinks it’s gross even if I didn’t enjoy it. Like I go down on him, does that make me gross to him? I’m sure it doesn’t cause he enjoys it, so it doesn’t make sense.
How do I break the news to him that I can’t be with someone who won’t go down on me?
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Netizens’ comments
- Just be honest with him. You have needs and he doesn’t meet them. In the future, don’t let a guy who doesn’t eat you inside you.
- Yeah that is a hard no for me. If he wants to be given oral but doesn’t give it back, that is a red flag. It makes a good reason to believe that in the future he will expect things that he doesn’t do back as well. So breaking up sounds the best to me.
- “eat it or beat it…” that should do it..
- “I am breaking up with you. I don’t want to be with someone who thinks my body is disgusting but is willing to let me do things to them that they’d never be willing to do for me. I will never get it out of my mind that you think going down on me is gross. You are a really selfish lover and we aren’t compatible.”
- You just say that you are not compatible and it’s over. You dont need to go into a lot of specifics. And I wouldn’t. If you tell him it’s for lack of oral he might say he will do it more.