Plastic surgery advice.
Hi fellow Singaporeans, I’m a 24 year old woman and as the title suggests, I’m considering to get my bewbs done. i am currently an A cup. Friends, family and my ex have been joking about my small chest since I was in secondary school.
My mum recently went for her enhancement surgery and even told me to consider going for it while I’m still young since it’s so common nowadays, she regret not going for hers earlier and i would look better with bigger bewbs.
Honestly i feel happy with my looks in general but whenever people comment about my small chest, (quite often) i feel super ugly, unattractive and insecure. I have a few questions to ask and hopefully get the opinions of both man, woman and people who have undergone the procedure.
- Do men prefer bigger bewbs? Will it make a woman more attractive to you? (Just be honest)
- To similar small-chested ladies, do you feel insecure? How do you accept your body and overcome your insecurities?
- To people who have done the surgery, would you mind sharing your experience? Did you do it in SG or overseas? How much was it? Implants or fat transfer?
I would really appreciate everyone’s honest opinions. Don’t worry about being morally right or polite with your answers. Thank you in advance.
Netizen’s comments
My mum is also very preoccupied with the same thing, and frequently made comments about mine. I am very uncomfortable dressing up around her, she always have something to say. My dad frequently made comments about her body (too small, too big, too loose, too whatever). Growing up, I was very insecure about myself.
A few years back I considered implants, but reading up on potential health consequences (e.g. long-term low-grade inflammation, people not knowing their implants was making them sick until they took it out) I decided that if I want to have a more voluptuous look for a certain outfit then I’ll just wear push-up bra with lots of padding.
When I met my current partner, he made it very clear to me that he loves my body because it’s mine and not because of any specific characteristics. after seeing that my partner consistently treat me with a lot of love and care even though I am quite flat, I lost interest in them.
I guess I wasn’t into that, I just thought that it was the prerequisite for me to be lovable.
The company you keep around you is very important. I was able to meet my current partner because of luck, and because I believe my partner should build me up and not tear me down. Telling me my body type is not their preference just means that I’m not the right girl for them.