I am in a state of shock. My friend, who is 1.6m tall and 105kg, just told me she has anorexia. I don’t know if she was joking or not, but she sounded really serious.
I don’t know if she is trolling me but she sounds like she was not joking. She made it sound like she wants me to accept her as my gf as she will “eventually” slim down
I know anorexia is a serious mental health issue, but this seems too unbelievable. I mean, her weight and height make it hard to believe she could have anorexia. Even if she is telling the truth, it doesn’t make sense.
Anorexia is an eating disorder characterized by extreme restriction of food intake and excessive weight loss.
But here’s the thing, my friend isn’t underweight or malnourished.
In fact, she’s 105kg, which is considered overweight.
She also has a healthy body mass index (BMI) of 25.5. So it’s hard for me to accept that she has anorexia.
At the same time, I can’t ignore the fact that she sounded like she was being serious. She said she was struggling with her weight and that she was trying to slim down. She also said she was doing all she could to cope with her problem, including seeing a therapist and taking medication.
It’s really hard for me to wrap my head around this. I don’t know if she’s trolling me or if she’s really struggling with anorexia. But either way, I can’t bring myself to accept her.
I know people say beauty is on the inside but both men and women have urges. Why should I be with her if I will eventually cheat on her or go some places to relive myself.
The question now is, How do i subtely reject her without her feeling bad.
I don’t like these kinds of situation. Someone help pleaseee.