Advice for a virgin (21F) who’s used to getting herself off in a prone position
I have been pleasuring myself in a prone position (lying on my stomach and grinding the bed) for years now and have only managed to come through this method.
I did enjoy getting fingered roughly by my ex and I feel I could’ve come given enough time but I get tired when I do it myself.
I’m going to lose my virginity in a few days through a planned hookup with some random guy who I find hot.
I know the first time is going to be painful anyway but could you guys suggest some ways for me to come on my back/through penetration instead of lying on my stomach, which I have gotten used to?
I haven’t touched myself in about 10 days. I just wanna ensure that me and my future partner have a good time. I’ve always been extremely insecure about this
Netizens’ comments
- Ok first off, it shouldn’t hurt. You’re 21 so realistically you’ve probably already broken your hymen just from existing. If it hurts, you need lube (ordinarily I’d say you aren’t aroused enough but losing your vcard can be nerve-wracking so that can counteract the arousal).
- Yup, keep stimulating yourself with your fingers or toy while he penetrates you, go slow, enjoy each stroke, tell him to start off shallow and keep it shallow as long as you’re comfortable. Tell him to squeeze you and massage your back while he penetrates you
- I lost my virginity in the prone position. Just tell this guy that’s the way you want to do it.
- You have lots and lots of other options to try but I’ve typically been disappointed when a woman has an obvious preference for the prone position but didn’t say anything to me.