I am with my boyfriend because of his money, he is with me because of the way I look. We are probably going to get married, hes likely going to have an affair, and thats just fine.
Title pretty much
Context: I am aromantic, so I don’t really feel love, ever. Because I am with him, I get to take my friends on holidays twice a year etc. He knows I do not love him. He gets to show me off to friends and I do the housework. Its a win win.
FAQ:
What if he leaves you?
I have a masters degree and 100k in savings
What if he makes you sign a prenup?
I will sign it. A prenup is a pre-negotiated set of terms before a marriage in case of divorce. Its not just “she doesnt get anything”.
If there is a prenup, I will ask for the condo and one of the cars along with maybe one other property. I am not sure there will be though, because we are ring shopping and it has not yet come up
Netizens’ comments
I think it’s fine if you are both on the same page and ok with the arrangement. This is how marriage has worked for many couples for thousands of years.
Listen, I married for love & I’ve been broke all my life. You do you, sista.