I fall in love with every man that shows me slightest bit of interest
hey, i (20f) have had a pretty difficult life in my teen years – my parents neglected me, never had any real friends that i would hang with out regularly,
Basically, was never really loved by anyone at any point. When i was 17, i got my first real boyfriend (now is 19m) that i love very much to this day
BUT i have this inner conflict with myself that I desire almost every man that shows affection, is friendly or shows even platonic interest in me.
I’m not a cheater, i never would act on anything but i feel like I can’t do anything about it and I also don’t know how to fix it.
Any tips on how to fix it? Sending hate would be useless bc I already hate myself for it. Please comment real tips and help a girl out :/
- Might be a emotional coping from trauma or something but yknow do ur best i guess maybe get some therapy might help you fix or handle this probleM
- Could it be that their approval is a turn on for you? Or you need to show them more affection to gain even more approval?
- Honestly… I feel like I’m the same way. Although I try to play it off like I’m comfortable with myself I still don’t feel like I’m worth much. I feel like any time I’m shown any attention or affection I better cling on because they might find out I don’t deserve it… Even though I know that line of thought is bullshit I still do it. I know this isn’t helpful.. I’m sorry. You’re not alone.