Yep, pretty much what I put in the header. My boyfriend ‘Tom’ and I have been dating for 1.5 years. He’s always been very touchy and sweet. He was always hugging his friends and holding hands with everyone (guys and girls). I’m actually not that touchy but he didn’t seem to mind.
Now about 3 months ago, Tom has met a new female coworker ‘Lisa’ and they became friends REALLY quickly. At first I was fine with it because Tom has a lot of girl friends and I’m not a controlling type. (Even though this Lisa was very very pretty, which made me feel kinda conscious.)
But stuff are turning weird lately. He spends a lot of time with Lisa, they cuddle together and he even gives her foot rubs. And when I told him about how it makes me feel weird, he said that he’s really sorry, he didn’t really realize how it would make me feel.
That they are just really good friends and that’s it, and that Lisa just happened to be a very touchy person as well so it works for them. He told me again that they are just friends and nothing more, and that he loves me. He told me that he’s ready to cut off ties with Lisa if I wanted him to.
I just don’t know what to think. What do y’all make of the situation? I really don’t wanna be that person that’s like “choose me or her” but I just feel really weird about him and Lisa.
Thoughts?