I’m a year 1 girl who has a bf in the army. Recently I got really close to a senior from the same course as me.
I feel that we have a lot of chemistry and he is my ideal type of guy. He is always by my side whenever I feel down, cheering me up with magic tricks.
Although he knew that I’m already attached, he continued to shower me with affection and love.
Instead of rejecting him, I led him on by asking him to hug me when I’m sad. Kiss him on the cheek when he sent me back home. (Well, as long as I didn’t engage in bedroom activity with him, I’m not cheating on my bf) .
I did clearly explained to him that, there is a very low probability of me becoming his gf. However, he gave me a shocking reply that touched my heart deeply and brought me to tears.
Although he knew that he has little or no chance, he is unwilling to abandon a vulnerable girl like me. He wants to stay by my side to protect my fragile heart until the day I no longer needs him.
When that day arrives, he will cut all contacts from me in order to nurse his emotional wounds.
I’m confuse now, what should I do?
Editor’s note: “I led him on by asking him to hug me when I’m sad, kissed him on the cheek when he sent me back home.” You actually think this is not cheating, I’m amazed.