GIRL’S BF IS LIKE INDIANA JONES, CAN FIND HER G SPOT BUT SHE CAN’T FIND IT HERSELF

How come he always finds my g spot but I can’t? Any tips?

So I’m seeing a guy and whenever he uses his fingers on me I can come so good and so quickly, I think he might just hit my g spot perfectly.

And that’s great and all, but I’d love to learn how to make myself come like that too since the ones I give myself take a lot longer.

Problem is that I can’t seem to feel as amazing when I try to use my own finger on myself. I thought maybe my hands are too small, but a toy doesn’t do the job either. It’s better than my fingers, but I can’t come from just that.

Are his fingers maybe just the perfect length? Or is it the angle that’s hard to achieve by yourself? I’d appreciate any advice on how to properly stimulate myself.

Netizens’ comments

1. I have a similar problem because the angle is so hard to get right with your own fingers. My fingers aren’t even that short but I have to put my arm/shoulder in a really awkward position to hit it right and it’s just not comfy. I now use a vibrating plug that I stuff inside me to reach it.
2. In my experience, using your own fingers on yourself doesn’t work that well. Your hands are coming at the situation from the wrong angle and you can’t put the same amount of pressure from that angle. Toys work much better for this.
3. Sometimes it’s not a case of finding it but mentally being in a different place with another person. Even a particular person. I know that’s the case for me.
   When it’s myself I’m more self aware, my heads focusing on other things I should probably be doing, I’m not as relaxed, it’s very much the only thing I’m doing to myself.
   Whereas when someone else has my body I’m more focused on them, on mutual enjoyment, there’s other things we’ll have done/be doing that give sensations to my body I don’t get on my own… it has my focus and I tend to come much easier. For me it’s entirely mental. Could this be the case?