My boyfriend keeps pressuring me to sleep with him.
This seems like a safe place to post so here goes. My boyfriend says he will leave me if I don’t get intimate and sleep with him.
We’ve been together for 2 years and before beginning a relationship I told him I wanted to wait for marriage, that is my choice btw.
Our relationship was fine but now he says he will leave me if I don’t sleep with him.
I love him but I still want to wait, but I also don’t want to lose him. My friends say i’m the problem and should just do it.
I know most people my age have done it already, im 18, but I just don’t want to.
Netizens’ comments
- You two aren’t right for each other. You want to wait and he doesn’t. That’s not going to change for him, and it seems like it won’t change for you either.
No point in trying to keep sailing if you’re already got a huge hole in your hull. You can only bail out water so fast..
- If you want to wait until marriage then wait.
No one should pressure you to sleep with them and you should never feel forced to do it. You won’t enjoy it and might regret it for years to come.
You’ll know when it’s the right time.