A netizen shared how her boyfriend usually doesn’t give her much affection, he only shows her affection when he wants to sleep with her.
Here is the story”
“So, as the title says my boyfriend of 9 years doesn’t show much affection throughout the day – he will occasionally give me a brief hug, a peck on the cheek and that’s it.
What bothers me, is that he starts to show affection before intercourse, and this isn’t foreplay.
He tries to hug me and kiss me in bed and tries to be cute and this is sometimes a turn-off because I just know he’s doing it to initiate.
I just don’t know if it’s because I know him so well that I’m overthinking it, or this is because it bothers me he’s showing affection right before he wants to sleep with me?
This sometimes makes me turn off completely and reject sleeping with him because it makes me feel used as if he is taking advantage of my liking to this affection.
Please be brutally honest with me, especially if I’m overthinking this and taking this the wrong way.”
Editor’s note: The signs are all there, he’s with you just to sleep with you.