My boyfriend is losing all of our money by day trading
My bf and I have been together for 3 years and since we have started dating his big dream has been to trade in the stock market.
We have joint bank accounts because we have kids together and other stuff so it just made sense. I have a money comes money goes attitude.
We have never been financially insecure since we’ve been dating. My boyfriend grew up really poor and states he will always feel financially insecure.
Getting to my point he’s been trying to get rich fast doing stocks and I recently discovered he’s been taking 400 dollars out of our bank account each month to trade and said he’s lost almost all of it.
I wanted to blow up on him but I didn’t. I stayed calm and respectful but inside I am burning. Now I feel financially insecure.
That was our Christmas money. I view him as an addict. It’s like some with a gambling addiction or shopping addiction.
Not breaking up but need advice on how to handle this plz